Monthly Archives: July 2015

The List Begins…

I Timothy 2:8-15
8 Therefore I want the men everywhere to pray, lifting up holy hands without anger or disputing. 9 I also want the women to dress modestly, with decency and propriety, adorning themselves, not with elaborate hairstyles or gold or pearls or expensive clothes,10 but with good deeds, appropriate for women who profess to worship God.  11 A woman should learn in quietness and full submission. 12 I do not permit a woman to teach or to assume authority over a man; she must be quiet. 13 For Adam was formed first, then Eve. 14 And Adam was not the one deceived; it was the woman who was deceived and became a sinner. 15 But women will be saved through childbearing—if they continue in faith, love and holiness with propriety.

This chapter is where Paul gets himself in trouble with me.  I don’t like verses 11-15 at all.  This list is how they read to me.
• Be quiet about what you’ve learned
• Don’t question
• Don’t disagree
• Don’t be a teacher
• Don’t be in charge
• Eve pushed Adam into deception
• Having a child will validate a woman

I admit my list is pretty contrary and defensive.  I have a whole different slant that in my mind reconciles my list and Paul’s writing.  It goes way back to Creation and Genesis 1:27  “So God created mankind in his own image, in the image of God he created them; male and female he created them.”

This is scriptural truth about God’s Creative seven days. HE made the decision that his image required both Adam and Eve to complete.  Then he created two unique and complementary individuals with no hierarchy or appropriate behavior list needed.  All was right…AND God said it was good.

I don’t know how long it was from that first week until when Paul wrote these strong words about the role of women in I Timothy.  I don’t like them but I do give him Godly credit for this: he put his finger on the tension and the conflict men and women have lived with since then.  It began way back in that perfect place when the two perfectly created people made their choice to take charge of their own lives instead of being Godly.  And so the list begins…

AHA Moment!

I Timothy 1:16 But for that very reason I was shown mercy so that in me, the worst of sinners, Christ Jesus might display his immense patience as an example for those who would believe in him and receive eternal life.

On of the most difficult things in my life of belief has been that dreaded word “outreach.” I am expected as a faithful believer to tell others of Christ and to offer them entry into His forever Kingdom.  I know the facts.  I know what they need to know to have eternal life.  What I’ve been less sure of is why I’m so timid about speaking up.  I think it scares me that people’s response to the message of eternity is sometimes tepid and sometimes really negative.

This morning I had a reading blip in I Timothy.  Here’s what I read for that last part of verse 16…as an example for those who would believe in him and receive EXTERNAL life.”  The moment I realized my mistake I also realized this may be really important. When you’re telling somewhat what walking into the Kingdom might mean to them, “outreach” may mean telling them more about how God will impact their EXTERNAL life than the glorious, but far-off, facts that impact their eternal one.  What do you think?

Knitter’s Proverb

I’ve had a wonderful experience being a part of a group that knits Prayer Shawls for gifts to help encourage people or celebrate with them.  They’re just what the name implies, shawls full of prayers.  We’ve practiced learning to rely on God to make the connection of who the shawl is to go to.  We’ve discovered the gift of a shawl to someone else gives us new courage to reach out on a personal level  We’ve learned a profound lesson that God can use even such a simple skill.


Proverbs 31:10-31 The Message

“She shops around for the best yarns and cottons,
    and enjoys knitting and sewing.
She’s like a trading ship that sails to faraway places
    and brings back exotic surprises.
She’s up before dawn, preparing breakfast
    for her family and organizing her day.
She looks over a field and buys it,
    then, with money she’s put aside, plants a garden.
First thing in the morning, she dresses for work,
    rolls up her sleeves, eager to get started.
She senses the worth of her work,
    is in no hurry to call it quits for the day.
She’s skilled in the crafts of home and hearth,
    diligent in homemaking.”

The Knitter’s Proverb
That good woman is on my mind, Lord
This knitting of mine, these Prayer Shawls,
Have shown me hearts that long for warmth,
That need a tangible gift of your caring love,
And the blessing of your embrace in their lives.

There are long hours of knitting that only you see.
Yet they have told others the story of your love.
Those hours have praised & honored you.
This is the gift you’ve shared through my hands.

Somehow this time with yarn and needles
Seems to be a part of your plan for my life.
It is a special part of who I am becoming…
A good woman, too, wrapped in your blessing
With knitting needles and a ball of yarn.